Built For Each Other

Soulmates have been talked about for centuries. Everyone has their own opinion and idea about what it means have a soulmate. I'm writing about how I see it. One thing that I think we can all agree with is that its a beautiful bond that creates beauty and gives strength. 

​People wait their wholes lives, people search forever, some simply dream about the thought of finding a soulmate. Someone made to love you through thick and thin. I believe a soulmate is one created to complement our flaws and insecurities, they excel where we lack and that is why it is a partnership. Someone who has demons that are able to tame and love our own demons. By no means does this relationship have to be perfect. At times it can be the hardest of trials, but struggles are what makes us appreciate beauty so much more. How do we know true love without going through heartbreak? Trials and tribulations are what creates a deep rooted affection. It is through these tests that a seed is planted; through time we watch it grow. It may go days without attention or nourishment, but at the end we see the flowers bloom and the sweet fruit of love ripen. Love can be complicated but I truly believe that loves sees no race, gender, clothes or money. At the end of the day we can dream of the perfect person or have a “type” but we can’t help who we fall in love with. It ends up just working out. We can choose to run away from it or let fear stop you, except the only ones hurt are the two of you. You miss an amazing opportunity to experience the world through someone else’s eyes and have a presence next to you as you move through life. A soulmate does not need to be a partner your sexually or romantically involved with. It can be a best friend or a family member. Someone who has come into your life and changed it for the better. They have the best intentions for you, support you, encourage you and truly loves you. I couldn’t fathom it before. Finding a soulmate in a friend or family member. I then met some great girls that I connected with on another lever. We instantly clicked as if we had known each other forever. My cousins that I am now super close with, I hold dear because they have, and will always have, a part of my soul. I want you to all know that we eventually will meet someone or multiple people who will change our lives. Make things better by just being there for us. Dream big but remember to live in the moment. Let’s not miss opportunities to love and be loved. Believe it or not, there are still amazing and beautiful people out there. Don’t let the news or media scare you. There are good people who want good things for you. It’s just a matter of searching and sifting through the crowds. Know that Rebel Roses is here for you and we would love to hear your thoughts and opinions. Do you believe in soulmates? Do you have opposing views? Let us know in the comments below. If you are going through tough times and need help or someone to simply listen send us a message. No judgment, no prejudice, no discrimination. We are here for you.
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